What would you do

I'm on it up being understanding that mothers are supposed to be there for the children all the time so when you have a broken family and try to work with the exit is absolutely horrendous it's kinda hard to relate to anything other than trying to keep your children close
my house will be going into the military soon and chances are that we may have to move because of his job. it's going to be hard moving with a baby. My idea is I'd to let the boys stay here with their dad and friends and my parents. it's not fair having to move them away from everything they know just because I have to. I have some people to support my idea and then some people who think I'm a terrible mother because I'm willing to leave there please my kids here with their dad. why do people think I would be a bad mom for letting him stay here with everything they know.