Really.. again... this conversation.

I would have thought that after having my baby that I would not have to get on my husband about cleaning but apparently I need to.

 

I really dont know how to get through to him.

 

1. If you know that I am going to make dinner when I come home clean a pan.

2. If you notice that we are almost out of towels, do a load of towels.

3. If you know that all three garbages are full, take them out.

4. If you know that dinner is going to need some meat, take some meat out.

 

Seriously?

 

When we had our internet turned off for three weeks I didnt really have this problem, the only issue I had was that he wouldn't take the boys to the park or let them play outside that much.

 

I feel like I am baby sitting three kids and a teenager.

 

I know the baby takes a lot of time and energy but what's worse, having a baby cry or dealing with a upset wife. I myself would make sure that the woman of the house would be happy. The baby can play on the floor, in her crib, sit in her bouncey chair and cry a little bit.

 

I do think the computer is sometimes much to blame, because I get lost in the fun of the web too. I come home from a very long day at work to find my husband signing up for a sixth foot league... I was really upset to the point of didnt want to say anything. There are somedays when I feel like I do compete with the computer.

 

Why is it just so hard to chew him out? Why is it so hard for me to agnry at him???

 

When is the right time to be mad?