The subject is cheating.

There are some people that I need to have closure with and it might be surprised on who.

When I was a kid just getting out of high school there was moment that completely made me lose all faith in falling in love and believing in that fairy tale. I was engaged to a guy and I thought that we would be together forever but that didn't happen. I don't know what really happened because I was not there to the encounter that ended my relationship. I have already had my closure with the guy that broke my heart but to the girl I would like to say something.

I am would like to know how the hell did you think that was OK? He comes to pick you up takes you to his dorm and then takes the time to drive you the two hours to bring you back home the next day didn't bring up any red flags? When not even a month before that I wold you that I don't trust as far as I could throw you. That was a bad call of judgement. 

I heard that you got married and I wish all the happiness in the world. I have forgiven you but because of you and him. 

Many of you might think that I am not over the thing that was 10 years ago but there is something about cheating that I don't understand.

I can't stand that in a person. That puts a black mark in my book about your character. 

How can you call yourself an honest person is you don't even have the balls to end something that you are unhappy in? 

People are going to say that people make mistakes.... people fall in love out of no where...

I fell in love out of no where with an awesome man, that takes care of me and  I know would never do that to me.

Before I met my husband I thought that men were idiots. I was seeing a guy that was just using me fill his own issue of not being alone. There was nothing really there but passive aggression. 

The I meet this guy that was everything that I thought I didnt need but I did need.  I need him all the time because to have the support and that back up is awesome.