Be a lady on the outside but have bigger balls than him.

I am upset. Girls go away and let the women play the game the way it was meant to be played. Men say they want a Miley or some other anorexic monstrosity that have the balls to call them a women.

Yes. This is young John Wayne. Gorgeous. 

When you like of men you think of John Wayne, George Clooney, Cary Grant, Brad Pitt, Matt Damon, or even better and the man that I have always thought that who was best Rex Harrison. Do you think that they would have taken themselves up with what inventory of females that is out there now? Hell no. They would have by passed the inevitable STD check and they would go with something of value.

Girl's today don't know what they are doing. You don't go on the internet and fall in love with someone and expect to be real. Be honest. Yes, there are some out there that are real but any person knows that as soon as you put yourself on the internet you have a good excuse: You work, you have a job, and you need help finding people. Then there are the type that is there for an easy fuck and to put your emotional roller coaster that they call your life.

Let's lay down some rules.

None of this. No one looks like this naturally.

1. If you are going to be on he internet trying to find a someone, be honest. Everything has to be honest. Don't put the most sexy picture as your profile. if you give a sexy picture you are giving too much a away too soon. Let it be a surprise that you like being tied up and you want to be taken control with whips and chains a month into dating.

2. 30 days. NO SEX FOR 30 DAYS. Make sure that he wants to be with you for you. If he likes you and grows really awesome feeling for you, wait. It will be worth it, You have to treat your body as a theme park. Make your body look like Disneyland but don't let him in until he earns it.

3. You are crazy. You might not want to admit it but you are a woman and we were designed to be crazy. Men don't listen to Betty Crocker and if they want you to be, fuck them. You have to be honest and let them know about your flavor and if he doesn't believe you, show him, when the time is right. If he doesn't like it than oh well move on to the next one.

4. Rule Breakers. You have to do this, not for him but for you. You have to be able to comfortable with yourself and understand that what you want has to be really want to be what you want. Don't try to fit him into your rules and don't fit into his. No couple should ever try to change their partner. Either your partner makes want to be a better person or they don't.  Don't change yourself.

5. Know Yourself. Know that being alone is not a weakness. You don't know who you truly are until you have been dumped and made to be alone. You have tons of evolution backing you up. Be alone. Let them know as you are dating that you are ok being alone until you find the right one. 

6. Learn how to cook. This is something that everyone should have learned.If plans fall through you should be able to adapt a have a really good night at home. Make dinner, have conversation, save money, and win points. 

7. Nothing is sexier than a person that can be silly. If you can laugh at yourself, then you have confidence and nothing says more scandal that a woman enjoying herself. Make the dirty joke, be one of the guys, and understand that being one of the guys  is awesome. 

8. Be a bitch. My mother told me that if someone is calling you a bitch than you are doing something right. Don't be afraid to call someone out on their bullshit. You deserve quality, not bullshit, and if they give you nothing but bullshit offer them the door. 

9. Don't be needy. If you are going to be one of those girls that are known for causing drama then change something. Do not be that girl that hangs on his every word, do not make up stories to have him drop everything for you, do not text him when he is at work when he tells you not to, and do not go out of your way to see him. If you have work stay at work. If he has a job that allows you to text then let him text you.  If he doesn't call you then oh well. Life loves on and so do you.

10. Do not make a mockery if our sex. We are women. The only reason why we are here is because God figured out that he fucked up with the first model. Do not be girl. You are a woman and you are playing a woman's game. Leave the girl at home, at college, in high-school. I don't care where you leave her, you leave her. Grow up. Pay your bills. Take care of your kids. You are worthy of everything that is out there but you have to work for it and have bigger balls than everyone else out there. 

You are playing for keeps.