Having little secrets.

I have acquired a new app on my phone called whisper and find the whole interesting and a little more a reminder of the human reality that we face. It is an app that is more like a secret social network where you can post anything that you want anonymously and post it in a wall. There are somethings that I can understand but also there are most things that I think people, knowing that this is all young people, need to grow up and get over. I have a number of things that I would like to say to bring people comfort and other that I would like to hit with a bat and ask what where they thinking.

There is one subject that is popular, weight. I, myself, is not the most skinny of women but also not the most over weight and yet I get it. Please do not change anything about you unless you want too. If someone is asking you to lose weight ask them to lose something as barter, like the relationship status they have to you. We all have our insecurities and issues with ourselves but we have also to learn to be ok with us first before doing anything for anyone else.

Second popular is being putting into the friends zone. It happens. It always does and more and more we are finding that people no loner want to have that great friend as a lover. They just want a lover. Is being good in bed that important now?   Here are perfectly good people that you have known for years, they have grown to love no matter how much bullshit that you have gone through in your life. I say take a chance and date someone that is your best friend and see what happens. 

Third popular having kids. Kids that are 19 wanting kids. Live a little more than 19. Take from someone that is from a product of a teen mom, it's better if you grow a little. Yes it is amazing to have a family but seriously been a kid of a teen parent is not as fun as you think. 

There was one that I know was understandingly that spoke volumes. 

" I wish I didn't marry my husband so soon in my life." That is something that I can understand but also upset over. You married a man that loves you and you are pushing yourself down because you chose to get married. Marriage is something that you should never regret and nothing that you should never slave over. There is nothing wrong with finding yourself first.

Yes there is a 19 or 18 year old on there asking for a booty call. They entertain me so much. Let them. Everyone needs to have that slutty time in their life. I think of it this way, either you are freak and have a following or you need to lose your v card and what better way to a stranger that knows what the hell they are doing. 

Secrets are secrets and this is an app that I truly do like because people are human and yes it might a page that is all emos but it's ok we will love you anyways even though facebook and other social media is too main stream.