A little Darcy.

I have been finding that the art of wooing a woman is something of the past and most men have no idea of what most women want.

Now, being married and no longer on the market means that I am not going to get wooing but I am not dead. There are somethings that are required and granted I am not (hoping that I am not), a complicated woman to please, and my husband knows this but come on. Do something to spark a surprise.

Even though that women are married, committed, and casual seeing we want to hear that we are wanted and that we are needed. 

Hearing someone tell you that you want to spend time with them, or you want to lay in bed all night with them is something that can be so sexy. You don't have to imply sex or anything but like but just talking and having a moment when nothing can touch you is better than sex.

Showing up and saying that we are going to go somewhere is another thing that is always fun and leads to good thing. To have that smile of pure surprise is awesome. You get that excited smiles when they realize that they are going to be surprised is a turn on alone. 

The last time that I was that surprised is when my husband proposed to me because that came out of the blue. I was not expecting that from him. 

Woo her. Pursue him. Everything that you do to make each other fall in love with one another all over again is going to be hard. 

There are going to be days that no one wants to do anything but pick a fight, shoot zombies on a game, cry, read, or just wants to go away. Let them have what they need but when they are done stop and be with them.  Do something that they didn't ask for but you know that it would make their day. Even if this means that you have to see some a movie, concert, or go do something that you don't want to do, you do it because you love that person.

Men can never match up the Mr. Darcy. You can not be Mr. Darcy. Yes, we all swooned but this is by a woman that wanted to have such a romance so much that they only she could get it was by writing, but we wouldn't mind him to show up once and while.

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