Instinct

Someone has once asked me what would happen if my boyfriend ever cheated on me. For one the person who asked this question didn't know me very well and for second i love answering this question.

If my boyfriend ever cheated on me? Define Cheating?

Cheating is something that I am not going to participate in because I know that feeling. It's horrible. It's like that scene in Indiana Jones and the Temple of doom, the vodo witch doctor/monkey brain guru gives you a sense of calm just before he rips his heart out for all the world to see. You sit there, chained to the memories of what you had and what you wanted to happen, and there is your heart, thumping in some guy's hand.

Some women don't even like it when their men look at other women. Come on, are you really that insecure with yourself that you have to punish your boyfriend's instinct. I encourage my boyfriend to look at other women, hell, I will look with him. I will let him know if he whale hunting, dumpster diving, waste management, or my personal favorite adopting a stray.

This is how cool I am with it. I gave one of my girlfriends permission to make out with my boyfriend for his birthday, might as well, plus she is hot. I will take my boyfriend to a titty bar, provide him with a stack of one, and pay for a lap dance. I know what you are thinking, I am considered the "norm" when it comes to girlfriends, and I am ok with that. One thing I need to be is the "norm".

When it comes to the physical, there is special agreement that he and I have, and he is pretty proud of it. All I am going to say is, as long as he tells me before it happen i won't throw a fit but he does it and then tries to hide it from me then we have issues. I know that it would be hard for me to bite my tongue as things commenced but we agreed to.

My boyfriend has told me there would be no reason why he would ever cheat on me. He is a human being and human beings think about one thing most of the time, when is the next time I am going to get laid. Sometimes is doesn't matter when, and it doesn't matter how all they want to do is fuck.

Girls, dont limit your men when they look.... they are only admiring the art that god has made. If they are only looking and fucking you what's the point of worring?