Being really attractive

 

Have you ever really wanted someone so bad that your mind would think of any way to get to them? Like you would take a day off of work just to go roll around in the covers with someone and feel really good. Does any one have that one person that they have mind blowing awesome relations with? Well I get to brag a little bit because I do have that one some person. I have a belief that if you are attracted, and I mean really attracted to someone. You have that little half grin when they come up to you, put their arms around your body, and you let go a little girl giggle. I know that you are reading this wondering, there is someone who can make me giggle. It happens and right now. It is happening often enough to say the man has some skills. You know that you are in terrible with a guy when you get that spine tingly sensation when they touch your skin. You have grin just when you think about him kissing you, because he is really good at it. When you can go to your friends and say " the boy can kiss" you know that are really attracted to someone. Well, I am one of those people that nice say the boys can kiss.... anytime he wants to I am there to volunteer.

Here is my question: when does physically attraction turn into true feelings?

I have been in a relationship that everything was awesome, he said every line, made every promise and has done every cheesy corny romantic thing in the book. that didn't last long. I have been in that relationship that you were thinking stage. That is going to last me another 18 years times two for that one. I love my boys but I have never been so happy to be cheated on in my life. Then there was the last one. This one was real. Everything about him was real. It was the most natural thing I have ever been in other than mother hood. I would have married him in a heart beat if he wanted too but in the end it wouldn't have ended so well, and me not being one that will divorce, it would have been long.

Right now, I am happy with the fact that I am not getting the standard romantic crap from him. Its like a new gift and you want to over use it to see how for you can go with it. He doesn't promise me anything, doesn't give me any crappy corny lines, tells me the way it is, and doesn't bull shit me. which is awesome. are these real feelings or something that I am attracted to?